At the beginning of last week, I was lamenting to a friend that things were pretty boring and quiet around the house since the kids had gone back to school. Michael and I talked about getting some things on the calendar to look forward to in the spring semester.
That quiet little bubble of empty nester life burst on Wednesday morning when I got a call from Grace saying she didn't feel well. Without going into too many health details, she was having sharp pains in her lower abdomen. About an hour later, she called back, her voice weak and strained, saying her roommates were taking her to the ER.
Mama-mode activated and I had a flight, rental car and hotel booked within minutes. As the day progressed, they ran many tests, and the diagnosis went from appendix to possible kidney stone(s). She had IV fluids, pain medicine, and nausea medicine. At one point, her blood pressure was 73/38.
Her roommates stayed with her all day, and I arrived at the hospital at about 9:30pm. They had determined that the pain was caused by a kidney stone and infection. By the time I arrived, she wasn't in pain anymore and they were just giving her as much fluid as possible. They decided to keep her overnight.
I was so thankful that I was able to go to Atlanta on such short notice, and also thankful that she was ok! They released her Thursday afternoon. She rested all day Friday and seemed to be doing better.
At this point, I decided to head down to Auburn to see Jack on Saturday afternoon and then fly home Sunday morning. Jack had started feeling under-the-weather on Wednesday (ironically), and I thought he would be doing better by Saturday. Unfortunately he still felt pretty rotten, so I took him to Urgent Care when I got to Auburn. He tested positive for flu, but it was too late for Tamiflu. I picked up some soup, Gatorade, and over-the-counter medicine for him.
Now I was ready to head back to the Atlanta airport, turn the car in and fly out in the morning. But then I got a call from Grace asking if I could come over to her apartment - she was having aches in the same area again. I headed back to the Emory campus, and did what I could to make her more comfortable.
I was able to rearrange my travel plans for a Monday night departure, and stayed at her apartment for 2 nights. She is feeling better now, and will have a follow up with a doctor in a few weeks. Jack seems to be back to normal now too.
Needless to say, I was wiped out and so tired when I got home Monday night. Probably more mentally drained than physically. We tend to take our health for granted, and this week-long roller coaster made me more grateful than ever for our family and health. I'm also so thankful for how supportive and understanding Grace's roommates were.
And now I will be completely happy to have a quiet, uneventful week at home!

OMG! what a rollercoaster and I know how your Momma heart felt. We want to be there for our kids when they need us and will move heaven and earth to do so. And, might I say, even after they are married. :o)) Hope it is a restful week for you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear that Grace was unwell, and then Jack, but it's wonderful that you were able to be right there (as soon as you could) for them. We never stop wanting to be by our kids' side when they are hurting. Hope they are both on the mend.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Pamela.
DeleteOh friend, isn’t it so hard when your kids are sick and you’re not there. Thank goodness you could get there ASAP for them both. I had four kidney stones in my 20s. If Grace has another one my recommendation is a small dose water pill I’ve been on one for 25 years and have not had a kidney stone since, knock on wood.
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DeleteOh I am so sorry! Hope Grace heals quickly and is feeling better -you are an amazing mom!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Holly!
DeleteWow, that is great as a mom that you were able to be there for them both. I don't know much about kidney stones but it sounds better than having to have surgery for appendicitis. Hopefully all is well now.
ReplyDeleteSo so sorry! Glad you were able to get to her!! So thankful they are both on the mend.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about all of this, and glad you could be with her so quickly. Her roommates sound awesome. Prayers to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mandy!
DeleteI'm so glad everyone is doing well now! It sounds like Grace's roommates are keepers. I'm glad they were able to take care of her until you got there. And I know it wasn't under the best of circumstances, but getting a little bit of unexpected extra time with each of the kiddos would have been nice.
ReplyDeleteOH my goodness! That is a lot to handle in a short amount of time. Glad to hear they're both feeling better and how sweet are your daughter's roommates to stay with her until you got there? Kidney stones are no joke; I've known full grown adults who've thrown up and passed out from the pain and have gladly said they'd go through childbirth again to avoid that pain. What a trooper she is. I hope they pass soon and rather uneventfully!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Joanne!
DeleteThank goodness both kids are feeling better and that you were able to get there to support them! I hope your week is quiet and relaxing now! - Sarah @ Sunshine & Books
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sarah!
DeleteOh no! I thought something might be up since you hadn't posted. Glad you were able to make the trip quickly and that everyone is on the mend!
ReplyDeleteYou are a rockstar. I would have done the same for my kids. I hope they both are feeling better.
ReplyDeleteWhat a week! I'm so glad you that could hop on a plane as soon as you were needed. I'm sure this has been a year of big adjustments, but you're still their go to person when they need help! I hope Grace and Jack are both feeling much better now.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you were able to be with her and that she has such amazing roommates! I hope everyone is healthy now.
ReplyDeleteIt's so hard being far away when someone needs you -- especially a child!! Getting to see them, sick or otherwise, was an unexpected blessing for sure though. Glad they are both on the mend. . .I don't think that was the kind of "excitement" you were looking for, right? Hopefully things will be a little more planned out the rest of the year :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a whirlwind! Your children are so lucky to have such a wonderful mom, and you are lucky you were able to go visit at the drop of a hat!! Happy everyone is doing better and prayers that it stays that way!!
ReplyDeleteLauren @ Don’t Mind Our Mess